Sisters know best

I have been contemplating my life and my surroundings a lot lately. My sister has been a great insight, which being a younger sister I often times forget because she is so smart. She has thoughts and views on experiences perhaps I never ventured into. Maybe she is more mature or maybe she is just so different that is helps. She knows me better and longer than anyone else there is so why not use her valued experiences to hopefully deduct my own conclusions. I often contemplate if one tells me not to do something or values their opinion that perhaps it only pushes me closer to what is unhealthy for myself. One wants what one cannot have, and if the advice is no do we not contemplate it more. Do we not think we are cooler, smarter, and different that the same outcome will not happen to ourselves? Either way we should learn from the mistakes of others, yet sometimes we have to make these mistakes ourselves for them to fully sink in. In anything I do regardless of whether or not I listen to my sister she is still my whole world, my heart and that will never change.